"By my own strength I am able to give up the princess, and I shall not become a grumbler, but shall find joy and repose in my pain; but by my own strength I am not able to get her again, for I am employing all my strength to be resigned. But by faith, says that marvelous knight, by faith I shall get her in virtue of the absurd."

-Kierkegaard, The Knight of Faith and the Knight of Infinite Resignation

Thanks Kierkegaard.